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Is retirement an ending or new beginning?

By Donna Cardillo, RN, MA

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At age 68, Greta (not her real name) was preparing to retire from school nursing. She had spent 30 years at the same job and had an additional 15 years of prior nursing experience.

“Honestly, I’m sad to leave nursing behind,” she lamented. “It’s such a part of who I am. I’d love to keep my hand in; I’m a caregiver by nature. You can’t just shut that off. But it’s time for me to move on and make room for the younger nurses. Maybe I’ll look for a job at my local library or as a school van driver.”

“Why don’t you find a part-time nursing job if you want to stay connected and continue working?” I suggested.

“What could I possibly do after so many years in one place?” Greta asked. “I don’t want to go back to the hospital, and I don’t want to work so hard anymore. I don’t even necessarily want a regular job. Impossible, right?”

“Not at all,” I answered. “I have several ideas for you.”

I told her I’d met quite a few nurses who had “retired.” After a few years, they’d felt a pull to stay involved in nursing on some level — either as a volunteer or as an employee. Because everyone is living and working longer, retirement is being redefined. There’s only so much leisure time many of us can stand!

Greta and I discussed how important it was for her to stay connected to her profession, whether or not she was working. I suggested that she join and get active in her state nurses association (SNA). I mentioned that many SNAs have coalitions for retired nurses because of that desire to stay connected. And many SNAs offer reduced dues for retired nurses.

If Greta wanted more hands-on work, I suggested that she contact her local public health nurse (city or county) and make herself available as needed to give flu shots, act as a coordinator or consultant to local schools, or help out at health fairs, public screening programs, and community education events.

When I asked Greta about her educational background, she replied, “I got my BSN a long time ago. I contemplated getting a master’s degree many times, but I never got around to it. There’s no point now since I’m retiring.”

I told Greta that I disagreed completely. First, I pointed out that education is a gift you give yourself. Education keeps you young and makes you feel alive.

Greta was skeptical. With a quizzical look on her face, she asked, “Do you really think I should even consider going back to school?”

“Absolutely,” I replied. “This is the perfect time in your life to go back. You’ll have the time to focus on your studies and enjoy your classes. Most students are harried — trying to juggle work, family, and school and having to rush to complete assignments. You’d have the luxury of being able to devote energy to the process without excessive demands on your time.”

She still needed some convincing, so I reminded her that 68 is still young by today’s standards. “Even if you never work again,” I told her, “higher education will expand your mind and enrich your life. There’s even research out there showing that those who stay actively engaged in learning lose fewer brain cells and stay sharp mentally while they age. Education also gives you confidence. Many people don’t reach their peek or hit their stride until later in life. Education supports personal growth, creativity, self-confidence, and self-actualization.”

Greta’s skepticism began to fade, and a twinkle appeared in her eyes. “I always thought of education as strictly related to career advancement,” she said. “But you’ve given me something to think about.”

I suggested that she consider enrolling in a master’s-level college course to see how it went. Eight months later, Greta retired from school nursing and enrolled in two college courses. “I decided to ease my way in rather than make any big commitments,” she said. “So far, so good. While it’s scary going back to school at my age, it’s also energizing.”

Greta is also working part time in a local blood bank and occasionally volunteering with her local public health department. Both allow her great flexibility with her schedule.

“I’m meeting new people and learning new things, but I still can travel and spend time with friends and family,” she said. “My retirement wasn’t really an end: It’s the beginning of a new phase of life and career. Once a nurse, always a nurse!”

 

Donna Cardillo, RN, MA, serves as Nurse.com’s career advice columnist.

 

Donna Cardillo, RN, MA, CSP, Nurse.com’s career advice columnist is president of DonnaCardillo.com. Known as The Inspiration Nurse, she is a keynote speaker, retreat and seminar leader, and author of “Your First Year as a Nurse: Making the Transition from Total Novice to Successful Professional” and “The ULTIMATE Career Guide for Nurses: Practical Advice for Thriving at Every Stage of Your Career.” She brings more than 20 years of clinical, management and business experience to her role as career guru. To ask Donna question, email [email protected]

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    Kay Gremmels September 9, 2015 at 3:05 pm - Reply

    I just want to say “Thank you” to Dear Donna and to “Greta” for bringing Greta’s story to light. I found this post to be both encouraging and validating for me. I recently completed my BSN at age 58 yr old. I did so out of sheer anger and frustration at not being able to find a job. So I went into the unemployment office very upset and in tears from another fruitless job interview (can’t find a job because of no BSN and no BSN because I don’t have a job). The supervisor at the unemployment office calmed me down and instructed me to me to just apply to the school of my choice. To my amazement I was accepted. I felt such pride when I finally held my BSN degree in my hand after 30 some years. I have continued into the MSN program as a Nurse Educator. I have 3 more courses to go and my 2 practicum courses- both 12 weeks each. Recently I have been questioning if I am doing the right thing going for my MSN at age 59 with a June 2017 graduation date and if I will be able to find a position and one that is higher paying which will allow me to use this MSN as jobs in nursing for my age group (over 50yr old) are very difficult to come by with or with a brand new MSN. Employers simply don’t want us older nurses. I have loved going back to school and have really enjoyed my courses. To my surprise, I have done shockingly quite well in them grade wise. I don’t think I could have attained these grades at a younger age. I feel attaining my MSN validates( to me and to the profession) my 30+ years I have spent at the clinical bedside (mostly in hospital nursing). I think those of us who have 30+years in nursing deserve to have our MSN. I am strongly leaning toward continuing to the DNP and maybe going for Nurse Practitioner. I just wish there was an age based reduced rate on our tuition or student loans.

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